Offered a blowjob for $50

Years ago I was at a strip club, just hanging out as I was known to do during that period of time. In life I have phases, and yes, I had a strip club phase. The owner, the manager, the security, and all the girls knew me at Flash Dancers back then. One of my buddies put me on and then I just ran with it. I don’t know exactly what I was doing there. I didn’t get lap dances often and would just chill out. Some of the girls would come and hang out with me cause they knew I wasn’t going to bother them and I wasn’t drunk. It was just a place to go during my lunch break. I don’t know y’all, whatever. It was a phase.

Anyway, there was this one time that there was a bachelor party going on. I wasn’t with their group, but I looked like I was one of them. I had on similar clothing, hairstyle, and I just looked like I was with them. There were some new girls there specifically for the party and I didn’t know them. So this really hot woman who thought I was part of that bachelor party grabbed my hand and told me, “We could go to the back and I’ll give you a blowjob for $50.” I tilted my head like a confused puppy and she said “it’s the bachelor party special for you guys. We were brought out specifically for your group.”

At the time, I had a girlfriend who I was fiercely loyal to. Yeah, I know that it sounds odd saying that I was fiercely loyal while in a strip club. But believe it or not, I was. Anyway, I smiled at the girl and said, “thanks, I’m good though.” Mind you, this woman was hot. In terms of what I like in a woman physically, she had it all. She said, “I can do more if that’s what you want. We can do a fast one for $120.” I’m not gonna lie to y’all, I considered it for a second. I had been watching her for awhile, and she noticed. I assume that’s why she came over to me. She had a perfect body, beautiful hair, a lovely face, and like I said, in terms of what I love in a woman physically, she had it all. I said that’ I’d probably regret this later in life, but that I’m good. She said okay, and told me if I changed my mind, just to let her know.

I got up and left after that. I didn’t want to see any of those douche bags from the bachelor party walking towards the back with this beautiful woman. For some reason or another, I knew that seeing this would bother me, so I just left. Nearly two decades later, when I look back on this, I don’t feel regret per se. I guess I wonder how good it could have been to be with her if only for a few minutes, but I don’t necessarily regret what I did. At the time it was the right thing to do. Nw if only the woman I was dating then would still at least be a friend to me now. Thing is that she cut me off some years later and never let me back in. So I lost her anyway, but at that time, it was the right thing to do.

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