This post is for the thirsty men out there, the bugaboos, the ones who relentless pursue a woman who may or may not be interested in a sex or dating relationship. Guys, she decided within minutes of meeting you whether or not you were freakable. It is as simple as that. Don’t stress asking yourself, “will she have sex with me?”
If she gave you a check mark on that category, then don’t sweat it, the time will come if and when SHE wants it to come. (Pun totally intended.) Otherwise, you are simply wasting your time and energy, and frankly, you look freaking pathetic.
There are definitely rare cases where a woman who is not interested in a man can be swayed to like him. However, that is very rare. If she likes you that way, she already knows it and all you have to do is be a man, then let the cards fall as they may.
Am I saying that you should not make a move? That’s not what I am saying at all. I’m saying that you can be subtle, gentle, and let things happen. By the way, she also knows if you are interested in her too!
This “Mami, damn you fly!” crap ain’t going to work if you have already been deemed unfreakable. It especially won’t work if this is an older, or self respecting woman. So relax, take it easy, and if she’s down for you, you’ll know.
Growing Up Bronx
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