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Month: March 2019

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Shazam Movie Review: A Fun and Emotional DC Adventure Worth Watching

03/25/2019, 7:49 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Saw an early screening of Shazam and really enjoyed it! It balances humor, dark moments, and family drama with emotional depth. Not my usual style to follow critics, but I’d give it a 7 or 8 out of 10. Definitely worth grabbing tickets for!

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Mike Tyson Gets Emotional Honoring Muhammad Ali’s Bravery and Legacy

03/25/2019, 7:49 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Mike Tyson’s journey from pain to power inspires me deeply. Like Tyson, I’ve faced abuse and humiliation, but through honesty and strength, we can overcome. His respect for Muhammad Ali reminds us all what true bravery and realness look like inside and outside the ring.

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Rikers Island Closure: NYC’s Controversial Plan to Move Inmates Closer to Boroughs and Its Impact on Communities

03/25/2019, 7:14 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Mayor de Blasio plans to close Rikers Island and build new jails in four boroughs, but I’m skeptical. The move may mainly benefit real estate interests, not communities, and I worry about larger facilities near my neighborhood and the impact on safety and local residents.

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My Fitness Journey: Overcoming Age, Low Testosterone, and Medication Challenges Without Giving Up

03/22/2019, 7:58 am Angel Rodriguez 0

I’ve been on my fitness journey for years, facing challenges like age, low testosterone, and medication side effects. Despite slow progress, I remain dedicated and refuse to quit. No matter how long it takes, I will keep pushing until I reach my goals. How committed are you?

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How to Handle Unhappiness with an Instructor: Respectful Feedback and Choosing the Right Class

03/22/2019, 7:39 am Angel Rodriguez 0

If you’re unhappy with an instructor’s style, consider sharing your thoughts respectfully or choosing a different class. Feedback can be helpful but remember to set boundaries when criticism isn’t fair. Sometimes it’s best to move on and find a class that fits you better.

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USAF Basic Training: How Independent Thinking Earned Respect and Perks

03/21/2019, 7:05 am Angel Rodriguez 0

During basic training, I broke ranks to dodge a dangerous pipe, which earned me kitchen patrol duty. Turns out my drill instructor respected my independent thinking and later gave me perks for being one of the few who prioritized safety and showed real value in the squad.

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Staying Calm While Getting Smothered in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu: Essential Tips for Beginners

03/20/2019, 4:44 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Feeling smothered in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu is common for beginners. Instead of panicking, try to relax and breathe through the discomfort. It’s usually just an uncomfortable position, not a submission. Stay calm, learn from the experience, and with time you’ll get better at escaping and advancing your position.

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Sparring with New BJJ Students: Balancing Intensity and Learning on the Mats

03/20/2019, 7:57 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Starting Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu means learning to check your ego at the door. Embrace humility, focus on growth, and foster a welcoming environment for new students. Meet intensity with respect, guide beginners patiently, and remember everyone loses as part of the journey on the mats.

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
by@Angelrtalk

Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
02/09/2026, 3:56 pm
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