South Street Seaport: A Beloved Waterfront Destination for Shopping, Dining, and Family Memories

04/13/2011, 3:19 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Discover a vibrant seaport offering games, shopping, dining, boat tours, and live performances. Perfect for family gatherings or relaxing by the water, this popular spot attracts locals and tourists alike, especially during summer and Fleet Week. Enjoy a unique waterfront experience year-round.

Business Review: Smooth and Simple Ceremony at New York City Marriage Bureau

04/13/2011, 3:18 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Get married effortlessly at NYC City Hall! From quick paperwork to a heartfelt ceremony, enjoy a smooth, rain-kissed wedding experience with loved ones. Discover how simple and beautiful tying the knot in New York can be—no hassle, just pure joy on your special day.

Cibar Review: A Friendly Atmosphere and Great Staff Make It Worth a Second Visit

04/08/2011, 7:35 pm Angel Rodriguez 1

Cibar offers a trendy, welcoming atmosphere with friendly staff and great drinks. Ideal for socializing or events, it’s perfect for relaxed evenings or gatherings. Experience excellent service, new friendships, and a vibrant setting in this must-visit bar and lounge.

Whiskey Tavern Review: A Cozy Sports Bar with Jenga and 90’s Rock Vibes

03/11/2011, 1:43 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Enjoy a friendly sports bar with great vibes, featuring basketball and boxing on TV, 90’s rock music, and unique touches like Jenga. Perfect for relaxing with friends on a rainy night, with friendly service and a welcoming atmosphere for casual drinks and good times.

Apotheke Review: Hidden Cocktail Lounge with Live Music and Creative Drinks

03/11/2011, 1:42 am Angel Rodriguez 1

Discover a hidden gem lounge offering creative cocktails, live guitar and saxophone music, and a cozy, dimly lit ambiance. Perfect for chill nights, with expert bartenders crafting unique drinks, comfy seating, and tasteful decor. A must-visit spot for cocktail enthusiasts and relaxed gatherings.

Affordable Vietnamese Eats at Thai Son (Baxter St.): Basic Service, Tasty Dishes in Chinatown

03/11/2011, 1:41 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Enjoy affordable Vietnamese cuisine in Chinatown with classic dishes like Bo luc lac and summer rolls. Expect basic service and limited drinks, perfect for a quick, tasty meal. Note potential MSG use if sensitive. Ideal for casual dining without breaking the bank.

Yelp Review: Enjoying Delicious Bites and Friendly Service at Sagaponack Bar and Grill

03/11/2011, 1:40 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Enjoyed a delightful company event with delicious mini burgers, crab and salmon cakes, and friendly service from bartender Jared and waitresses Debby and Jenia. The VIP area offered comfort and great ambiance, making it a perfect spot for memorable meet and greet gatherings.

Twin Value Supermarket Review Update: Moldy Strawberries Highlight Product Quality Concerns

03/06/2011, 2:16 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Discover why frequent mold issues and poor expiration date monitoring at Twin Value have led to a lowered customer rating. Learn about the importance of quality control in supermarkets to ensure fresh, safe produce and avoid potential health risks from spoiled items.

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Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community

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