“I’m a Flirt” by R. Kelly: Boundaries & Respect in Relationships

Have you guys listened to the song “I’m a Flirt” by R. Kelly? One of the lines in the song says the following:

If you love your girl, and wanna keep your girl, don’t be walking up and asking me to meet your girl.

As I listen to the song, I can’t help but shake my head at some of the lyrics. Like, who do these guys think they are that they can just take your girl? That would definitely be frustrating to deal with, and most people wouldn’t just let something like that slide.

All that aside, let’s focus on the people referenced in the line. I can’t help but wonder what kind of man would go up to another man, celebrity or not, and ask to meet his girl. I mean, seriously?

It’s one thing if your lady approaches them, or if he tries to talk to your girl. But what kind of guy would actually go to another man and say, “My girl is a fan, she would really like to meet you”? You’re basically helping your woman meet another man. In other words, that’s just not a great move.

Seriously, guys, what’s up with that? And you know it happens, otherwise these dudes wouldn’t be rapping about it. It’s hard to understand or believe, but I guess some people just have different ideas about respect and boundaries!

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