How to Handle Racial Profiling: Staying Calm and Respectful in Difficult Encounters

I commented on this video asking the original poster a question, a genuine question. I get that he was upset after a tough day, and I understand that he has the right not to cooperate when asked to I.D.

But I had to ask, wouldn’t it have been simpler if he had just stayed calm rather than confrontational? In life, I find that when we remain calm and talk to people in a respectful way, no matter the situation, things often work out better. Whether it’s at a store getting a refund, buying a protein shake, speaking with a customer service rep, and so on. I’m curious if, had he been more composed, this cop might have handled the situation differently—maybe even given him a ride to where he needed to be. I’m just wondering, speculating is all. I’m not saying he was right or wrong, but I’d like you to consider my viewpoint.

I don’t know this man or his life experience, but I’m interested in what you all think about this. He was clearly upset and challenging from the start. Whether or not he was legally entitled to act that way is not my point. Nor am I trying to start a debate about law enforcement or racial issues—there’s plenty of that out there already. I’m aware of those issues and have seen some disturbing examples myself. I know some cops behave badly and others do not.

I’m just focusing on this specific situation: do you think if he had reacted differently, it might have turned out differently?

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