Ever since I was a child, I was taught that, as a man, you’re supposed to walk on the side closest to the street when walking with your partner. I’ve followed this pretty much my whole life. I also do this when walking with my child, my pet, or anyone I feel I need to look out for.
I remember a few years back, I met up with a friend I hadn’t seen since grade school. We went out to grab a bite, and after dinner, we took a short walk to her place where I dropped her off and went home. As we walked, she noticed me shift to the outside and seemed genuinely surprised, saying, “Wow, you’re walking on the outside.” I smiled at her and said, “This is just how I am; it’s how I’ve always been.” I think she appreciated that.
In today’s world, some people might see this differently, but it’s just part of who I am. Most of the time, people don’t even notice, but I do it without fail. There are a few reasons behind it. In my culture, it’s said that having your partner on the inside symbolizes care and protection, while being on the outside can signal openness to others. It’s a symbolic way of showing connection and respect.
There are also practical reasons. When crossing the street, I always move to the side where the cars come from so that if there is any danger, I’m the one facing it. I use the same idea when walking on the sidewalk. So, reflecting on my upbringing, I do it because of tradition and meaning, but also for the safety and well-being of those I care about.
What are your thoughts on this practice?
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