We were traveling throughout Asia, one of our stops was Japan. I believe that at this point, I had already emotionally checked out of this relationship. The woman treated pretty bad for a long time, and by the time things improved, I had already emotionally moved on.<\/p>\n
So for those of you who don’t know, I love all things Japanese, especially the ladies. So as we sat down at the Japanese restaurant and the very friendly waitress engaged us in conversation, I was smitten.<\/p>\n
At one point she said that she often comes to visit NYC. I said that was awesome and that “We should all hang out during her next trip.” She seemed into the idea, and I tried to seize the moment and make a connection. If I recall correctly I offered my card, but then I saw my then girlfriend giving me the evil eye. The Japanese lady noticed and excused herself.<\/p>\n
My ex looked at me and said “Are you freaking hitting on her?” Of course I replied no, I was just trying to make a new friend as I always do. She wasn’t buying it. This made the rest of the dinner rather awkward.<\/p>\n
By the way, I didn’t get to make the connect with the girl, and me and my girlfriend ended up splitting as I knew we would long before. Why do we hang on to things when we know they are dead?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"