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<\/p>\nThere have been a few articles shared with me which\u00a0state that porn is terrible for our minds. They claim that it\u00a0corrupt us, and damages us psychologically. Most of the individuals that I know which share this viewpoint are religious in nature. See, when it comes to porn, I don’t share their life view. I actually think porn is healthy for men.<\/p>\n
The thing with porn is that you have to understand that most of the time, real life sex is not like that. If you understand that most women will not want, or let you bust a load in her freaking eyeball, then you will probably be okay watching porn. If you understand that most men do not have a 13 inch penis, then you will probable be okay watching porn.<\/p>\n
That’s not to say there is anything wrong with any of what you see in porn, hell, if that’s your thing then please give me call! No, I’m kidding, but seriously, most porn is fantasy and not really what you will encounter in the real world. If you can keep real life sex and the porn separate, then you are ahead of the game.<\/p>\n
I would argue that porn is a very useful tool in relationships. Most couples, once married, or living together, don’t engage in sex as much as they once may have. The reasons for this are many, and we won’t be going into the why, but more of how porn helps in situations like that.<\/p>\n
Do you know what happens to a man who doesn’t empty the tank often? They become extremely horny, and the hornier they get, the more likely they are to act on sexual desires. If their lady is not meeting their sexual needs, and they do not empty out the tank, you’d best believe that the man is going to find himself another love interest\u00a0to get\u00a0that tank situation sorted out.<\/p>\n
This is where porn can be a marriage saver.<\/p>\n
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Watching porn, you will not risk creating pregnancy, spreading diseases, leaving broken hearts or any broken homes. The worst that can happen is a little chafing here and there. But if the tank is empty, though not a perfect solution to the problem, it will slow down the man’s likelihood of ending up inside of\u00a0another woman.<\/p>\n
At 39 years old, I can tell you with damn near certainty that if not for porn, and the control that it gives my man tool, there is no way I’d be able to remain in a long term relationship if we are not getting it on regularly. No way.<\/p>\n
I remember when I was in boot camp, for a period I didn’t relieve my man tool, and holy crap was I becoming a beast. I still remember how much desire I felt for women who were typically not even attractive to me. I simply reached a point where I needed to get off, and nearly all of them looked good to me.<\/p>\n
Having been married twice, and in many long term relationships, I know that sex life has its ups and downs, and once again, I’ll state that if not for Asa Akira, Haile Page, and many others, I may have gotten in trouble 10X more than I have in relationships over my life. These women and their many on film talents have kept me under control many a time!<\/p>\n