Drake Earns High School Diploma: A Positive Milestone

10/19/2012, 7:22 am Angel Rodriguez 4

Drake recently earned his high school diploma, showcasing his commitment to personal growth beyond fame. This positive milestone highlights his dedication and sets an inspiring example for fans and young people alike, reinforcing the value of education within the hip hop community.

First Day of School: Keeping Kids Safe and Aware

09/08/2012, 1:26 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Navigating the challenges of a new school can be tough for kids and parents alike. From diverse backgrounds to social dynamics, helping children feel safe and confident is key. Learn how to support your child through school transitions and build resilience in a changing environment.

NYC Subway Rush Hour Safety Tips for Traveling With Kids

08/29/2012, 4:11 pm Angel Rodriguez 1

Traveling with kids and luggage during rush hour can be challenging and risky. Stay vigilant to protect your children in crowded spaces, plan ahead like guiding older kids to lead exits, and avoid peak travel times to ensure a safe, stress-free journey for your family.

NYC Spotlight: Paint Straight Program with Ralphy “Tatu” Perez

07/06/2012, 11:10 am Angel Rodriguez 7

Ralphy “Tatu” Perez leads Paint Straight, a restorative justice program helping NYC youth with graffiti charges. Through art education and mentorship, Paint Straight teaches respect, history, and law, fostering positive, crime-free lives. Supported by Xmental Inc. and NYC probation, it transforms talent into community strength.

Latino Fathers: Breaking the Cycle and Being Present

04/25/2012, 11:51 pm Angel Rodriguez 3

Discover the challenges Latino fathers face in staying present for their children amid divorce and separation. Explore the importance of fatherhood, breaking generational cycles, and fostering strong, respectful bonds for brighter futures in Latino families and communities.

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Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community

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