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This is where I’ll post my rants and raves on whatever happens to grind my gears that day.

Open door

Door Security Habits in the City

04/13/2026, 2:17 am Angel Rodriguez 0

A look at the different ways people approach home security and what those habits say about us.

Locker room

Locker Room Noise

04/12/2026, 3:01 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Observations about locker room behavior and the mystery behind unnecessarily loud locker door slamming.

Train car

Remember When the Train Lights Used to Go Out?

04/12/2026, 2:58 am Angel Rodriguez 0

A look back at riding the trains when the lights would cut out for no apparent reason, and why modern reliability matters.

Scaffolding

Scaffolding and Tenant Security: When Building Work Creates a Break-In Risk

04/11/2026, 12:02 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Scaffolding goes up and suddenly your home has a new vulnerability. I’ve dealt with this twice and learned that documentation, persistence, and knowing your rights as a tenant are the only tools that move the needle.

Racoon

Racooning: The Oddly Accurate Street Term for Two Black Eyes

04/07/2026, 12:09 am Angel Rodriguez 0

A TV show clip introduced me to the term racooning and once you hear it you cannot unhear it. Two black eyes really do look like a raccoon.

Billiards

Why Billiards Halls Never Appealed to Me

04/06/2026, 2:20 am Angel Rodriguez 0

I never understood the appeal of billiards halls or bars. I’d rather spend time with friends over dinner at a restaurant where we can actually talk and catch up.

Young cops

Young Officers on the Corner

04/06/2026, 2:18 am Angel Rodriguez 0

A brief encounter with young officers working the neighborhood reminded me of the responsibility that comes with the job at any age.

Neighborhood

The Dog Waste Problem in Our Neighborhoods

04/06/2026, 2:15 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Dog waste is piling up in neighborhoods across the city, and it comes down to personal responsibility and respect for where we live.

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
by@Angelrtalk

Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
02/09/2026, 3:56 pm
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