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Married Without Sex?

While at home during my lunch break, I just read an article where a woman stated that she hasn’t had sex with her husband in 3 years. She stated that he made a vow to love and cherish her, for better or worse. As a mom, she states that she doesn’t have the time or desire for sex. She argued that she cleans the house, cooks meals, and takes care of their kids. She stated that this should be enough for him to be happy with her, and that he shouldn’t need sex in their relationship. They are married without sex?


This woman is out of her freaking mind, and the husband, well, he must be getting his sex elsewhere. 3 years? That’s absolute insanity.

Look, sex is not everything in a relationship. Any reasonable person knows this. It is not everything in a relationship, but it is a part of a relationship, and without it, well, it’s just a matter of time before you get cheated on, or end up splitting up. That’s just a fact, very few people will stay loyal, or in a relationship where they are not getting sexual gratification.

I dated a woman, whom for personal reasons, I completely lost sexual interest in. It was the beginning of the end. I still remember her saying to me, “I’m going to cheat on you, Angel. If you don’t give it to me, someone else will.” At this point, I didn’t give a damn, I was already emotionally checked out of that relationship, but it goes to further prove my point. No sex, and you are headed for trouble.

I can guarantee to you with 100% certainty that as long as I am a healthy adult, unless I’m in prison, or dead, there is no way that I’d go 3 years without sex. First of all, there is not one human being alive today who will convince me that I cannot attract a woman. Furthermore, in the case where I simply could not attract a woman, then I’d take myself a trip to the bunny ranch? Same end result. Feel me? Never 3 years.



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