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Month: August 2011

Business Review: Exploring the American Museum of Natural History – A Must-See NYC Attraction

08/27/2011, 5:10 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Discover the awe-inspiring exhibits at NYC’s vast museum, featuring realistic dinosaur displays, diverse global sections, and grand architecture. Perfect for families, tourists, and locals alike. Check if your company offers corporate memberships for free admission and experience this must-see cultural destination.

Ranch 1 Queens Review: A Convenient and Clean Fast Food Option in Elmhurst

08/22/2011, 5:15 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Ranch 1 in Queens offers a straightforward, affordable meal option with grilled chicken, rice, and vegetables. Ideal for those seeking a quick, healthier alternative to typical fast food chains, it provides a clean, tasty choice perfect for convenient dining in the Queens mall area.

Business Review: Exploring the Shops and Vibes of Chelsea Market

08/22/2011, 5:11 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Discover a vibrant indoor shopping spot in Chelsea, featuring a variety of unique shops, a relaxing air-conditioned environment, and a charming central fountain. Perfect for visitors seeking a mini mall experience with something for everyone, especially after a long day of exploring.

Sundaes & Cones Review: Delicious Pink Grapefruit Sorbet on the Ice Cream Crawl

08/22/2011, 5:07 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Discover the refreshing pink grapefruit sorbet at Sundaes & Cones in East Village, praised for its authentic flavor and well-staffed service. A must-visit stop on the ice cream crawl for delicious, high-quality sorbets and a variety of tempting frozen treats.

Luke’s Lobster UES Review: A Must-Try Lobster Roll Experience

08/22/2011, 5:02 am Angel Rodriguez 1

Enjoy a delicious lobster roll at Luke’s Lobster UES in New York. Featuring lightly buttered, toasted bread with fresh lobster and mayo, this popular spot offers a flavorful, satisfying experience. Perfect for a quick bite despite its small, crowded setting. A must-try for seafood lovers!

Village Yokocho Review: Delicious Yakitori and Great Service in East Village

08/22/2011, 4:59 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Enjoy delicious, authentic yakitori at Village Yokocho in East Village. Savor flavorful skewers like chicken meatballs, beef, shrimp, and chicken wings, paired with sticky white rice. Great service and a cozy atmosphere make it perfect for a satisfying meal after a night out.

Angel’s Share New York Review: A Relaxed Japanese Speakeasy Experience

08/22/2011, 4:49 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Discover Angel’s Share, a cozy Japanese-run speakeasy hidden inside another restaurant in East Village. Enjoy unique virgin cocktails with fresh fruit in a relaxed atmosphere—perfect for friendly conversations. Experience a stylish, intimate setting ideal for a memorable night out in New York City.

Urbanspoon Blog Review: People’s Pops Shaved Ice at Chelsea Market

08/22/2011, 4:43 am Angel Rodriguez 2

Discover delicious, authentic watermelon shaved ice at a hidden gem inside Chelsea Market. This refreshing treat, made with real juice and finely shaved ice, offers great value and a chill vibe. Perfect for an ice cream crawl or summer treat in NYC!

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
by@Angelrtalk

Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
02/09/2026, 2:56 pm
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