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This is where I’ll post my rants and raves on whatever happens to grind my gears that day.

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TriBoro Bus Tour: A Fun Night of Bars & New Friends

04/14/2011, 5:34 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Join the cool bus crew for an epic bar crawl hitting Cibar, Moonshine, Astoria Bowl, and Idle Hands Bar. Amazing people, random singing, dancing, and pure madness make this an unforgettable night out!

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Georges Barber Shop Review: Rushed Fade and Missed Spots

04/14/2011, 5:27 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Tried a new barber shop and walked away with missed patches and a rushed fade. Sometimes the extra drive to a trusted spot is absolutely worth it.

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City Hall Park: NYC’s Hidden Green Oasis

04/14/2011, 5:23 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Tucked between government buildings and City Hall, this small but clean green space is a peaceful urban escape worth exploring when the weather warms up.

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Columbus Park: NYC’s Hidden Gem for Music & Recreation

04/14/2011, 5:21 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Discover a serene NYC park filled with Chinese folk music, martial arts, and community spirit. A beautiful hidden gem perfect for relaxation and cultural immersion after a busy city day.

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Bloomingdale’s Marc Jacobs Prices Disappoint Shoppers

04/14/2011, 5:20 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Bloomingdale’s prices left us shocked with an $80 Marc Jacobs T-shirt and a $120 sleeveless hoodie. Soft and comfortable yes, but steep for basic clothing items.

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Yellow Rat Bastard: Trendy Soho Shop With Steep Prices

04/14/2011, 5:18 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Discover tokidoki Marvel shirts at Yellow Rat Bastard in Soho, a trendy and touristy spot with stylish vibes and steep prices. Two t-shirts will run you around $60!

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Chock Full O’Nuts: Generous Breakfast & Great Service

04/14/2011, 5:18 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Chock Full O’Nuts in Midtown West surprised me with full table service and a breakfast menu featuring generous made to order omelettes, toast, and home fries worth returning for.

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Ido Holistic Center Shiatsu Massage Review: Sore Muscle Relief

04/13/2011, 9:18 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

After a brutal 6 mile run and MMA class, I tried Ido’s shiatsu with Sam. No oils, just firm pressure over a blanket, full body relief for $85.

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
by@Angelrtalk

Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
02/09/2026, 3:56 pm
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