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Month: November 2011

Dig Inn Review: Noticing Reduced Meatball Portions Despite Steady Price

11/30/2011, 5:51 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Noticed a portion change at your favorite spot? Meatballs have decreased from 6 to 5 while prices remain $15.25. Enjoying juice, brown rice, and veggies, but smaller servings may impact your choice. Stay informed on portion sizes and dining value to make the best meal decisions.

Neir’s Tavern Review: Celebrating Tongue Threat Tuesday Anniversary with Great Food and Poetry

11/30/2011, 5:26 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Celebrate creative nights at Neir’s in Ozone Park! Enjoy delicious burgers and fries while experiencing impressive poetry performances and emerging talent. This lively venue offers unique events like “Tongue Threat Tuesday,” making it a must-visit spot for food and entertainment enthusiasts.

Neir’s Tavern Review: Celebrating Tongue Threat Tuesday Anniversary with Delicious Burgers

11/30/2011, 5:26 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Discover Neir in Ozone Park, a vibrant venue hosting events like “Tongue Threat Tuesday” with amazing poets and standout talent. Enjoy delicious burgers and fries in a welcoming atmosphere. Neir is the perfect spot for great food and entertainment. Visit Neir for unforgettable experiences!

Lysistrata Jones Review: A Catchy, Fun Musical with Drama, Dance, and Basketball

11/12/2011, 4:55 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Experience the vibrant musical comedy featuring catchy tunes, drama, love, and basketball! Perfect for fans of Glee and High School Musical, this energetic show offers great singing, dancing, and colorful characters. Don’t miss the exciting dress rehearsal performance of the “ARodomus Prime Saga”!

Yelp Event at The Firehouse Space: Great Vibes, Beer, and Delicious Crab Cakes

11/10/2011, 4:34 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Experience a unique event at a stylish Brooklyn space featuring a pool table, hot tub, and cozy lounges. Enjoy craft beers from Brooklyn Brewery and delicious crab cakes. Perfect for socializing with Yelp All Stars in a vibrant, welcoming atmosphere. Great food, drinks, and vibes!

Stark Reality Open Mic Review: A Relaxed Comedy Night with Promising Performers

11/05/2011, 5:26 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Experience the “Stark Reality” open mic—a relaxed, soundproof venue with diverse standup comedy acts. Supportive atmosphere encouraged, though some sensitive topics like abortion-themed jokes may not resonate. Organized by Viviana, perfect for performers and audiences seeking authentic, engaging live comedy experiences.

Iguana New York Review: Disorganized Service and Disappointing Mexican Food Experience

11/05/2011, 5:10 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Disappointing Mexican dining experience with disorganized service, overpriced bills, and unappetizing dishes like sloppy goat cheese quesadillas. Fajitas were passable, but overall noisy atmosphere and service issues make this restaurant hard to recommend. Beware of billing errors and wait times.

Mike Geffner Presents The Spoken Word: Inspired Word Open Mic at Nexus Lounge Review

11/02/2011, 5:46 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Experience the vibrant “Inspired Word Open Mic” at Bar One’s Nexus Lounge, featuring music, comedy, poetry, and storytelling. Hosted by Nathan P, this well-organized event offers 30 five-minute performer slots with drink specials until 8 pm. Join the fun and become a regular!

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
by@Angelrtalk

Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
02/09/2026, 2:56 pm
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