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Month: October 2012

Interview: Inside the World of an Adult Photographer—Truths, Photoshop, and Unexpected Stories

10/14/2012, 11:29 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Discover insider truths from an adult photographer about photo retouching, unexpected studio experiences, and the reality behind perfect images. Learn how Photoshop shapes beauty standards and hear candid stories that reveal the challenges of working in adult photography today.

Masterchef Season 3 Contestant Monti Carlo to Cook for Special Valentine’s Guest

10/12/2012, 1:16 pm Angel Rodriguez 6

Discover Monti Carlo from Masterchef Season 3—radio host, foodie, and entrepreneur behind “Slap yo momma.” Follow her journey as she builds her food truck and frozen food line while engaging with fans on Facebook and Twitter. Stay tuned for Monti’s delicious adventures and special events!

All the Single Ladies! The Ultimate Guide to Meeting Singles in New York

10/11/2012, 5:28 pm 14

Looking to meet singles in New York? Discover unique ways to connect—from joining whiskey clubs and softball leagues to speed dating and active outdoor spots. Embrace new experiences, be yourself, and find love in the city that never sleeps. Happy dating!

American Born Muslim Rapper King Sage Speaks Out on Terrorism and 9/11

10/10/2012, 5:31 pm Angel Rodriguez 11

Discover King Sage, an American-born Muslim rapper from NYC, known for his insightful views on terrorism and social issues. Check out his award-winning mixtape “Total Recall,” featuring DJ Khaled, and watch his thought-provoking video log on addressing complex societal challenges.

Discovering Vegan Delights at Cafe Blossom: A Flavorful West Village Dining Experience

10/07/2012, 4:07 pm 0

Discover Cafe Blossom in NYC’s West Village—a chic vegan bistro offering flavorful, organic dishes like Seitan Marsala and Mushroom Risotto. Enjoy a cozy ambiance, attentive service, and unique vegan cuisine that’s perfect for those seeking healthy, delicious meatless meals. A must-visit for vegan dining enthusiasts!

Discovering Dim Sum Delights at Nom Wah Tea Parlor: NYC’s Oldest Chinatown Gem

10/06/2012, 2:27 pm Angel Rodriguez 3

Discover Nom Wah Tea Parlor, the oldest dim sum restaurant in Chinatown, NYC. Enjoy classic favorites like pork shumai, shrimp dumplings, and their famous house pork bun. Friendly service from Wilson and authentic flavors make Nom Wah a must-visit for Chinese food lovers seeking genuine dim sum.

Stop-N-Go Chicken Kew Gardens Review: Quick and Tasty Real Chicken Option

10/05/2012, 3:46 pm Angel Rodriguez 1

Stop-n-Go Chicken in Kew Gardens offers quick, tasty chicken combos with rice, salad, and flavorful BBQ sauce. Ideal for a fast, satisfying meal, this Long Island City favorite serves real chicken meat in a casual setting—perfect for those craving a convenient, no-fuss chicken option.

Mesa Grill Review: A Memorable Dining Experience with Bobby Flay’s Signature Dishes

10/02/2012, 8:46 pm Angel Rodriguez 2

Experience the exceptional flavors of Bobby Flay’s Mesa Grill in New York. From tender chipotle peanut ribs to mango-spiced tuna and indulgent desserts, enjoy expertly crafted dishes, flavorful sides, and top-notch service. Perfect for special occasions and food lovers seeking a memorable dining experience.

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
by@Angelrtalk

Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
02/09/2026, 2:56 pm
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