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Month: March 2013

Does Money Buy Happiness? Understanding the True Role of Money in Our Lives

03/17/2013, 12:34 am Angel Rodriguez 39

Money doesn’t buy happiness, but it eases life’s challenges and reduces stress. True joy comes from accomplishments, loved ones, and purpose. While money provides comfort and meets basic needs, it shouldn’t define our happiness or control our lives.

Just Ask for Directions: Why New Yorkers Are Really Friendly and Helpful

03/15/2013, 11:38 am Angel Rodriguez 10

New Yorkers might get a bad rap, but we’re actually friendly and love to help. If someone smiles and makes eye contact, don’t be afraid to ask for directions. Sure, there’s a tiny chance they’re a psycho, but hey, life’s about taking chances, right?

Publick House Review: Delicious Food and Cozy Stay at Historic Sturbridge Hotel and Restaurant

03/10/2013, 12:59 pm Angel Rodriguez 9

The Historic Publick House in Sturbridge serves carefully prepared dishes like standout meatloaf and fresh crab cakes. The cozy, clean rooms offer a peaceful escape from city life, making it an ideal spot for a relaxing visit or a special celebration in Massachusetts.

NYC Subway Etiquette 101: Essential Metrocard Tips to Avoid Turnstile Hassles

03/04/2013, 11:40 am Angel Rodriguez 21

Frustrated with your metrocard acting up at the turnstile? Learn quick tips to avoid common mistakes, speed up your swipe, and keep the subway line moving like a true New Yorker. From prepping your card to having backups, master metrocard etiquette and dodge those frustrated glares.

Tamara Talks with Christina Morelli About “Defriended: A Guide to Breaking Up and Shaping Up”

03/01/2013, 6:03 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Tamara Thelander interviews author Christina Morelli about her book Defriended, offering thoughtful guidance on navigating breakups and personal growth. Gain valuable insights and practical advice to help reshape your life after ending relationships. Learn more at nyctalking.com and defriendedthebook.com.

Tamara Talks with Christina Morelli: Author of “Defriended: A Guide to Breaking Up and Shaping Up”

03/01/2013, 6:03 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Tamara Thelander interviews author Christina Morelli about her new book Defriended, offering practical advice on ending relationships and personal growth. Explore helpful tips for moving on with confidence. Learn more at defriendedthebook.com.

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
by@Angelrtalk

Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
02/09/2026, 2:56 pm
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