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Month: December 2014

Shirts Off and Shenanigans: Wild Memories from the Company Christmas Party at the Copacabana

12/31/2014, 11:15 am Angel Rodriguez 4

Throwback to a wild 90s Christmas party at the Copacabana where I got way too drunk, danced with a senior coworker, and took my shirt off on stage. Drama, fun, and unforgettable moments—does anyone else have a crazy party story to top this? Let’s hear it!

Honest Review of Zen Fusion Cuisine: Tasty Miso Soup and Beef Basil Dish, but Just Okay Overall

12/31/2014, 10:47 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Tried Zen Fusion Cuisine for a change from the usual takeout. Miso soup was decent, calamari cold and bland, but the basil beef entree had good flavor and heat. Prices were on the higher side for takeout, and while it’s worth trying, it may not be a regular spot.

Can You Show Her Around New York City? A Story of Unexpected Passion and Confidence

12/24/2014, 4:33 pm Angel Rodriguez 1

From a chance city tour to passionate nights, this story shares the fire of unexpected connections, personal growth, and the ups and downs of love. Life changes us, but confidence and passion remain. A lion always roars, no matter the years or weight gained.

Can You Show Her Around New York City? Me? You Sure? A Passionate New York Love Story

12/24/2014, 4:33 pm Angel Rodriguez 7

How it began: showing a friend around New York turned into passion and unexpected connection. Despite changes in age and fitness, confidence and genuine moments keep the lion’s fire alive. Life moves on, but the memories and passion remain timeless. ROAR!

INSANE Russian Counter Terror Confidence Drill: Remarkable Courage on Display

12/23/2014, 4:23 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Wow, these Russians truly display incredible courage in this video. Their bravery is impressive and worth seeing firsthand. Prepare to be amazed by their fearless actions and strong spirit. Don’t miss out on witnessing this remarkable display of fearless determination!

Spoken Word Poetry: Understanding the Cost of Senseless Killing and Violence

12/23/2014, 3:51 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Lives are lost, families mourn, and tensions rise in a world torn by conflict. This heartfelt plea calls for an end to senseless violence, honoring those we’ve lost and hoping for peace to heal wounds that no one deserves to bear.

I Look Gay: Memories of Nightlife, Style, and Partying at Webster Hall, Culture Club, and Flash Dancers

12/20/2014, 3:21 am Angel Rodriguez 3

Back in my 20s, I partied hard at spots like Webster Hall and Culture Club, getting special treatment and free drinks. People often asked if I was gay because of how I dressed and moved, but I was just having fun and enjoying the nightlife with friends.

Don Coqui Bronx Review: Huge Portions, Great Ambiance, and a Memorable Birthday Experience

12/19/2014, 4:31 pm Angel Rodriguez 2

Don Coqui in the Bronx offers huge portions of tasty Puerto Rican dishes in a spacious, lounge-like setting with great water views. Perfect for special occasions, the lively atmosphere and friendly service make it worth the trip, though it’s a bit pricey and not the easiest spot without a car.

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
by@Angelrtalk

Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
02/09/2026, 2:56 pm
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