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Month: May 2015

A Chinese Birthday: Growing Up in Rural China and Caring for Missy the Pig

05/06/2015, 5:36 am Angel Rodriguez 8

Join ten-year-old Han in rural Guangdong as he shares a simple day caring for family pigs, herding geese, and balancing school life. Experience the quiet moments and hard work that shape childhood in a small Chinese village.

Overcoming Jealousy in Relationships: How Trust Changed My Perspective

05/05/2015, 2:15 pm Angel Rodriguez 1

Jealousy can be exhausting and often pointless. I’ve learned to trust my partner instead of getting upset over a glance or stare. Letting go of jealousy brings peace and confidence because you can’t control others’ actions—focus on what truly matters in your relationship.

Black’s Barbecue Review: Enjoying Authentic Texas BBQ Delivered Nationwide via FoodyDirect

05/03/2015, 8:05 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Craving authentic Texas BBQ from anywhere in the US? FoodyDirect makes it easy to order famous Black’s BBQ from Lockhart, Texas, right to your doorstep. The meat arrives frozen with dry ice, tastes smoky and tender, and is perfect for a satisfying meal at home.

Doonya Workout Review: A Fun Bollywood-Inspired Fitness Experience

05/03/2015, 5:53 am Angel Rodriguez 4

Looking for a fun new workout? Doonya offers Bollywood-themed fitness classes that blend dance, yoga, and strength training. Perfect for beginners, these energetic classes help you burn calories and feel refreshed. Clean studios and friendly vibes make it a great spot to try this spring!

Pho Bang Flushing Review: Reliable Vietnamese Cuisine Without Surprises

05/03/2015, 4:50 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Pho Bang in Flushing offers reliable Vietnamese food with familiar flavors you’ve likely tried before. The menu is solid but doesn’t stand out, and the service is efficient without much warmth. It’s a decent choice if you want a satisfying meal without surprises.

El Gran Valle III Restaurant Bronx Review: Affordable and Hearty Beef Stew in the Bronx

05/03/2015, 4:27 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Stopped by El Gran Valle III in the Bronx for a hearty beef stew with rice and peas. Great portion for just $10 and friendly service. Not gourmet, but tasty and quick—perfect if you’re nearby and need a satisfying, affordable meal without the fuss.

How I’d Handle Being a Superhero: Embracing My Inner Iron Man Over Clark Kent

05/02/2015, 8:11 am Angel Rodriguez 1

Stayed up all night watching superhero flicks and realized I’d handle superpowers way more like Tony Stark than Clark Kent. No awkwardness, just owning it and seeking the spotlight. How about you? Would you go shy or full Iron Man if you had superpowers?

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
by@Angelrtalk

Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
02/09/2026, 2:56 pm
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