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Month: April 2019

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Encounter with a Homeless Man Who Tried to Intimidate Me: Standing My Ground

04/30/2019, 7:54 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Walking home, a homeless man tried to hustle me for cash. I stayed friendly but stood my ground when he got pushy. I’m not someone you can intimidate or rob without consequences. Sometimes people really test you, but I don’t give off a soft vibe.

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A Bad Decision We Made as Kids and What It Actually Taught Me About Judgment

04/30/2019, 7:51 am Angel Rodriguez 0

A candid look back at a childhood mistake made in anger, why two wrongs never add up to anything useful, and the lesson about judgment that took years to fully sink in.

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From Group Homes to Loving Fathers: Inspiring Stories of Overcoming Adversity

04/30/2019, 7:00 am Angel Rodriguez 0

I admire two friends who overcame growing up in group homes to build strong families of their own. Their journeys from childhood struggles to responsible adulthood inspire me deeply. Seeing their success reminds me how much can change within one lifetime. I’m proud and hopeful for their future stories.

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Why I Hated Working on the Trading Floor: A Shy Person’s Story of Stress and Survival

04/29/2019, 7:52 am Angel Rodriguez 0

After 18 years in investment banking, I loved supporting back end teams but struggled with the high-pressure, visible chaos of the trading floor. The stress and shyness made it tough, but a great team kept me going. That role? Never again.

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Military Stories: Why I Left the U.S. Air Force Over Iraq and Career Frustrations

04/26/2019, 7:48 am Angel Rodriguez 0

I left the military because I didn’t support the war in Iraq. Though I enjoyed the structure and discipline, I disagreed with the mission, faced frustration over career opportunities, and didn’t want to stay in a system that didn’t value my happiness or growth.

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The Lazy Ass Barber: When Speed Trumps Quality at Your Local Barbershop

04/25/2019, 7:54 am Angel Rodriguez 0

I had a frustrating experience with a barber who rushes through haircuts and admitted he doesn’t want to spend time on quality. I’m tempted to tell the owner because customers deserve barbers who take pride and deliver good service, not just quick, average cuts.

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Some People Just Won’t Like Your Group Fitness Class – Why That’s Okay and How to Thrive

04/25/2019, 7:19 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Some group fitness instructors just click better than others, and that’s okay. Focus on your strengths, keep your classes fun and energetic, and don’t stress about pleasing everyone. The right people will appreciate your style and keep coming back. Enjoy the ride and happy training!

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Intermittent Fasting Journey: How Skipping Breakfast Frees Up My Mornings

04/24/2019, 7:40 am Angel Rodriguez 0

I’ve been intermittent fasting for a couple of weeks now and haven’t noticed obvious changes yet, but I like not having to think about breakfast. I’m sticking with a 16-hour fast and eating window from noon to 8 p.m., hoping benefits show up over time.

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
by@Angelrtalk

Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
02/09/2026, 3:56 pm
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