West Side Sushi Review: Mixed Food and Service Experience

04/13/2011, 3:39 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Visited a sushi spot on a rainy day with friends. Decent miso soup but inconsistent spider roll and mild spicy tuna left little impression. Unlikely to return.

Stop Inn Diner Review: Greasy Food and Quality Concerns

04/13/2011, 3:27 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Visited this local diner with my son and left disappointed. Greasy turkey bacon, bland home fries, and a suspicious spot on the waffles left us searching for a better spot.

Solo Pizza NYC Review: Decent Late-Night Slices, East Village

04/13/2011, 3:26 pm Angel Rodriguez 1

Solo Pizza NYC offers friendly service and decent late night pizza, making it a solid option for a quick bite after hours in the East Village.

Idle Hands Bar: A Classic Dive Bar Experience in NYC

04/13/2011, 3:23 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

A classic dive bar with a basement setting, wooden furniture, friendly bartenders, and affordable drinks. The perfect low key spot to unwind and catch some sports on TV.

South Street Seaport: A Lifelong Local’s Honest Review

04/13/2011, 3:19 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

A lively waterfront spot perfect for games, dining, shopping, and boat tours. Locals and tourists flock here year round, especially during summer and Fleet Week. Basically a glorified mall by the water with boats!

Married at NYC Marriage Bureau: A Quick, Stress-Free Ceremony

04/13/2011, 3:18 pm Angel Rodriguez 0

Got married at NYC City Hall and it was smoother than expected. Quick paperwork, a heartfelt ceremony, and even the rainy weather felt like good luck. Simple, beautiful, and stress free.

Cibar Lounge Review: Welcoming Staff and Great Atmosphere

04/08/2011, 7:35 pm Angel Rodriguez 1

Cibar is a trendy bar and lounge with genuinely friendly staff, a welcoming atmosphere, and great drinks. Perfect for events or relaxed evenings where you can meet new people and unwind.

Whiskey Tavern: A Cozy Sports Bar with Jenga & 90s Rock

03/11/2011, 1:43 am Angel Rodriguez 0

A laid back sports bar with friendly service, Jenga, basketball and boxing on TV, and 90s rock playing. A solid spot to unwind with friends on a slow rainy night.

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Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community

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