Hey, check this out: condoms are not perfect. I won’t pretend otherwise — sex does tend to feel better without one. That’s just a fact. Nothing quite compares to that level of intimacy.
Here’s the catch though: you know what’s a far worse outcome? Having an unplanned baby when you’re not ready for it. That kind of situation really complicates life. It also creates serious problems if you end up with a sexually transmitted disease that causes lasting health issues or worse. Those outcomes definitely outweigh the downsides of wearing a condom.
So yeah, while condoms might not be ideal, having a baby too soon or risking your health is a much worse situation. The reality is, as men, we have to take responsibility and use condoms unless your partner is on birth control or you’ve had a vasectomy or something along those lines.
And seriously, DO NOT RELY ON THE PULL-OUT METHOD. No matter how confident you are, precum can lead to pregnancy. That’s not fair to you, your partner, or the potential child who may face a tough life or difficult decisions. Don’t be that person.
Since condoms can reduce sensation, what can we do? In my experience, most condoms feel pretty similar, but some are definitely better than others.
My all-time favorite have been the original Kimono Microthin Large condoms. Despite the “large” name, they actually fit me well. It’s not about size, I promise. They also have an XL size for those who need it. These felt the thinnest and gave the best experience for me. They come in different styles, but that one was my top pick.
I’ve tried others labeled “Ultra Sensitive” or “Almost Like Nothing,” and those are pretty good too. At the end of the day, even if condoms lessen sensation, they A) prevent unwanted pregnancy, and B) protect you from most sexually transmitted diseases, though not all. Herpes and some others can still be passed through skin contact around the genital area.
Basically, condoms are not 100% foolproof for pregnancy or disease prevention. The only way to be completely safe is abstinence. But if you’re going to be sexually active, protect yourself and your partner by using condoms every time.
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