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Month: March 2019

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I Don’t Miss Her: Reflecting on a Brief, Forgotten Relationship and Moving On

03/20/2019, 7:55 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Sometimes relationships blur into fleeting moments that feel more like brief flings than lasting connections. I don’t miss her, but I know she’s out there. She left no mark, just a memory of passion and then silence, a chapter closed with no looking back.

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How to Set Boundaries with Persistent Panhandlers Without Feeling Guilty

03/20/2019, 7:53 am Angel Rodriguez 0

I’m friendly and usually greet neighbors with a smile or nod, but sometimes people take advantage of my kindness. After helping a few times, some expect money regularly. I feel it’s not my responsibility to fund their habits, especially when they seem to have other sources.

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Episode 1: How We Connected with Friends Before Texts and Social Media – Nostalgic Childhood Memories

03/20/2019, 7:29 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Before texting and social media, connecting with friends meant shouting from your window, knocking on doors, or calling on a landline. We’d show up, ask to hang out, play games, or just chill outside. Kids today don’t know how real it was back then.

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Rolling with Women in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu: Respect, Safety, and Fair Training Practices Explained

03/15/2019, 7:44 am Angel Rodriguez 0

In Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, respecting physical differences means training smart and safely. Men should dial back intensity with female or smaller partners to build confidence and keep everyone coming back. Skill isn’t about gender, but common sense and care help create a positive training environment for all.

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Zumba Playlist Perfection: How I Keep Classes Flowing and Avoid Choreography Fails

03/14/2019, 7:45 am Angel Rodriguez 0

My Zumba playlist is all about flow and fun, making that hour fly by without you even noticing. I carefully choose songs that are easy to follow, keeping the energy high and the moves intuitive. If a song disrupts that vibe, it’s out—no exceptions!

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Why We Refuse to “Just Let Your Pet Die”: Understanding the Unbreakable Bond with Our Fur Babies

03/14/2019, 7:29 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Losing a pet is heartbreaking and vet bills can be overwhelming. But for many of us, letting go isn’t an option if there’s a chance to save them. Our pets are family, and we love them deeply, even through the toughest decisions.

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Sparring with Higher Belts in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu: Overcoming Challenges and Valuable Lessons Learned

03/14/2019, 7:18 am Angel Rodriguez 0

Brazilian Jiujitsu can be tough, especially when rolling with higher belts who set a challenging pace. Even when they take it easy, it’s still a battle. Fight back, learn from every tough round, and keep pushing yourself to improve. Osu!

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When My Puppy Peppa Asks for Help: A Heartwarming Story of Trust and Love

03/14/2019, 7:05 am Angel Rodriguez 0

My sweet Peppa has found her own way to ask for help with tough treats. Watching her trust me to break them into smaller pieces warms my heart. There’s nothing like the love and connection shared with a little puppy learning to communicate.

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Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
by@Angelrtalk

Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

Episode 116 – BJJ Safety, Abuse Concerns, and Changing Attitudes in the Jiu Jitsu Community
02/09/2026, 3:56 pm
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